[nabs-l] this one aide is driving me crazy? how should i react?

[Joshua Lester]

Ask your mom to talk to him.
Thanks, Joshua

On 3/6/12, vejas <brlsurfer at gmail.com> wrote:
> Hi,
> The person I am writing about is not my aide, it's another guy.
> This guy, Gregory, helps out with other kids, I think maybe the
> ones who are autistic?
> Anyway, when I've seen him recently he has been ABSOLUTELY
> ANNOYING.
> For example, for no other reason than the fact that I was
> travelling on my own, he said he was proud of me.  But I didn't
> do anything! I'm just traveling, exactly as I should!
> On a second incident, when I was outside a classroom, I had to
> call my mom for something, and he came up.  After being told that
> I was on the phone, I was just about to leave the message when he
> began talking again in his loud voice, and I had to call her
> again.  When somebody knows you're on the phone, they should
> seriously JUST LEAVE.
> And maybe the worst was today.  He followed me the WHOLE ENTIRE
> last quarter of my math class.  He would tell me to turn left,
> even if I knew I had to.  And the weirdest thing was that when I
> was walking, I felt a trash can with my cane and went around it
> just as I was supposed to.  Then a couple seconds later he said,
> "There's a trash can." Yes, I know.  I went around it a couple of
> seconds ago.
> I really need help.  He really bugs me.  I'm assuming he might
> just be uneducated in blindness, as he is so used to working with
> learning-disabled and autistíc people and probably has to do a
> lot with them.
> I've considered telling my aide, but they're sort of friends and
> knowing who he is (I've had this aide for three years, same one I
> talked about about getting lost a week ago), I'm assuming he's
> probably going to make some excuse for Gregory (they're on
> friendly terms.)
> How can I get the message across to Gregory? Seriously if he
> doesn't listen to the fact that I'm about to send my mom a
> message, how am I going to expect him to listen if I talk with
> him firmly?
> Thank you so much.
> Vejas
>
>
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