[nagdu] Please stop and drop this.

[Julie J.]

Chantel,

Just to make sure you understand that you are not expected, required or 
encouraged to answer anyone's questions on this list.  If you choose to 
do so, okay and if you choose not to, okay.  Only post what you are 
comfortable posting, nothing more.  This list is meant as a resource for 
guide dog users who are also interested in NAGDU.  It is meant to be 
friendly, and helpful, however sometimes it is difficult to determine 
the meaning behind the words because there is no accompanying tone of 
voice or laughter to tell us what is said is meant in a friendly way.  I 
do my very best to ensure that we all get to share our ideas in our own 
unique way without offending others.  I usually air on the side of 
people mean well, it just came across bluntly.  I know in my own writing 
I am often less than gentle.

Rebeka has asked questions, but it has been up to you to answer them.  
Also to clarify, I believe that Rebeka's most recent request for 
clarification was not directed at you, but to Hannah who originated the 
topic.  Reading back through the message thread it wasn't clear, but it 
is my belief that she was asking Hannah what changed that might affect 
her application.

You haven't been on the list for very long, so you haven't had much 
opportunity to get to know the folks here.  Each of us has a unique way 
of communicating.  Some are more blunt, direct, while others are more 
soft and suggestive in their approach.  I think it is one of the things 
that makes this list such a great resource-all the various people, from 
all sorts of backgrounds, with differing opinions.  They make me think 
about things in ways I would never have on my own.  That has to be a 
good thing!

If you should experience any more uncomfortable situations, I would 
encourage you to ignore the message sender or send me a private message 
at julielj at neb.rr.com and I will look into it.

Thanks!
Julie


HTH
Julie
NAGDU list moderator


> Sean and Julie,
> If I may, I  want to add something I forgot to add to my last post. A
> certain member of this list has tried to get in to my business twice
> now. I've had to divulge some things that I really didn't feel were
> appropriate for the list, just so that she could try to advise me of
> my decision.
> Guys, please, respect my boundaries. If I don't wish to discuss the
> answer to your question on list, please just drop it or write me off
> list at
> jawsgirl87 at gmail.com.
> Thanks all,
> Chantel.
>
> On 10/13/11, Julie J.<julielj at neb.rr.com>  wrote:
>> Sean,
>>
>> You are not the moderator of this list.  I have seen nothing from anyone
>> telling Chantel not to go to Pilot.  If I've missed something please let
>> me know.
>>
>> Julie
>> NAGDU list moderator
>> On 10/13/2011 5:36 PM, Sean Robertson wrote:
>>> Hi Everyone, Chantel was talking to me earlyer, And she was telling me
>>> that people are up setting her. If she want's to go to Pilot for her
>>> dog, Then she has that right. I for one am very prowd of her. There's
>>> menny schools that do guyde dog training. So please drop it. And let
>>> her do what she want's.
>>> windos messanger name is sean822 skype contacked sean8221
>>>
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