[NFBF-Tampa] sad news about one of our longtime chapter members

[danjhicks at gmail.com]

I am kind of at a loss for words. Lloyd was one of my best friends and one
of the finest people I have known. He was one of the first people I met when
visiting Tampa to see Gloria, and we became friends immediately, and
remained so. We never had a disagreement or falling out. 

 

Marion, you related the BFH story very well, and if you had not, I would
have. It was classic Lloyd. I remember when we were doing that Public Access
show, how quickly Lloyd caught on to the lighting setup. It was not
something simple, like a console with knobs and sliders. It was a wall of
thick black cables with plugs on the end and specialized receptacles that
the plugs went into to get certain lighting effects. For most of us it was a
confusing mess that we had no hope of figuring out. Lloyd caught on to it
immediately! Thanks to his presence , we could do whatever we needed to do
with the lighting, almost immediately. 

 

I went to Lloyd's house a couple of times to help him with his computer, and
these events were every bit as fun for me as they were helpful to Lloyd.
Probably more so for me. 

 

I always looked forward to seeing Lloyd or Lloyd and Madge at parties and
parties. 

 

I will miss him a lot. I know we all will. 

 

Rest in Power, Lloyd. 

 

Dan Hicks 

 

From: NFBF-Tampa <nfbf-tampa-bounces at nfbnet.org> On Behalf Of Marion
Gwizdala via NFBF-Tampa
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Subject: Re: [NFBF-Tampa] sad news about one of our longtime chapter members

 

Dear NFBF Family,

 

                Lloyd Mathews was the longest serving member of the Tampa
Bay Chapter, joining in 1988 shortly after the chapter was founded. Lloyd
was an electrical engineer with a fantastic sense of humor and a sensitive
kind heart. His Jamaican accent was recognizable even in the crowded room of
a national convention. I want to share two stories about Floyd. That is not
a misprint of his name either. I don't know where it came from except
someone in my circle - perhaps my ex-wife - always called him by the wrong
name and it became an inside joke within our chapter.

 

                My first story demonstrates Lloyd's ability to be
provocative in order to get people to think about their perspective. On a
trip to a state convention in Jacksonville which, I believe was around 1998
because I recall my daughter, Aislinn, would have been about 12 years old,
the topic of the death penalty came up. My daughter became involved in the
conversation and stated her strong opposition to the practice. Lloyd, in
spite of his mutual opposition, began presenting and argument contrary to
his opinion in an effort to playfully antagonize my daughter. The two of
them bantered back and forth for nearly 30 minutes! Lloyd often reminded me
of the banter, commenting on how much he enjoyed the banter and how
impressed he was with Aislinn's young intellect. He frequently asked about
Aislinn and was not surprised when I told him she was pursuing a Ph.D.!

 

                Around that same time, the Tampa Bay Chapter was producing a
public access television program for which we were nominated for the Golden
Cassette award. (A discussion of what a cassette is would be a topic for a
different post!) During one of our production sessions, we had some
technical difficulties. One of the staf said something like, "We need to get
someone from IT (Information Technology) to come and take a look at the CGI
(character generating interface)!" Lloyd replied, "I think what we need is a
BFH!" playing off the technician's use of acronyms. I remember Dan Hicks
nodding in agreement and saying "Yeah!" then adding, "What's a BFH?" Lloyd
replied, "A big f***ing hammer!" 

 

                God speed, Lloyd Mathews! 

 

In loving memory!

Marion Gwizdala

 

 

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Subject: [NFBF-Tampa] sad news about one of our longtime chapter members

 

Hello to all,

 

I'm so sorry to have to tell you of the passing of our longtime member Lloyd
Mathews.

Lloyd passed away on Sunday morning. His son has come down from New York.
Lloyd's funeral service will take place this Friday, February 17, at 11:00
at the Boza and Roel Funeral Home. The address is 4730 North Armenia Avenue.
I don't yet know whether there will be a lunch following the service. I will
try to get more details at least by Thursday morning so those planning to
attend will know when to make your return trip reservations.

 

Lloyd truly loved our chapter, and there was no greater ambassador for us.

 

Warmly,

Sherrill

 

Sherrill O'Brien, Secretary

Tampa Bay Chapter

National Federation of the Blind of Florida

 

Phone 813-935-0474, cell 813-767-1890

email Sherrill.obrien at verizon.net <mailto:Sherrill.obrien at verizon.net> 

 

The National Federation of the Blind knows that blindness is not the
characteristic that defines you or your future. Every day we raise
expectations because low expectations create barriers between blind people
and our dreams. You can live the life you want! Blindness is not what holds
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