[Ohio-talk] Want to Participate in Survey about domestic Violence?

Colleen Roth n8tnv at att.net
Sun Mar 9 21:46:36 UTC 2014 

Hello Aleeha,
I understand how hard it is to find a Shelter which will accept a blind person.
Sometimes these Shelters are not just for Battered Women and their children. 
Sometimes people who have violent behavior or have a History of stealing are also residents of this Shelter 
too.
Some of these Shelters are reluctant because they do not know how to assist Rebbidents who are blind or have 
other Physical Disabilities.
Some Shelters require residents to leave during the day. Some shelters serve meals at another 
site.
I understand that it is helpful for a person to find shelter in a safe place.
Sometimes the abuser will still bother someone in a Private Home.
If people are in a shelter services kick in quicker.
People can be moved up quicker if they are in a shelter.
Personally, I would consider having a blind woman from another part of Ohio or Michigan stay here.
I think sometimes this is the only option.
Most shelters are not wheelchair accessible.
Colleen Roth
On Sun, 9 Mar 2014 15:28:27 -0400, Aleehawrote:


>Hello All,
>I agree wholeheartedly that these materials MUST be made accessible. Being a 
>victim of domestic abuse myself, I know what it is to not feel like you have 
>anyone in the world who cares, who gets it. I know what it is to have 
>difficulty finding a safe place to stay. Not as many staff are trained as we 
>might think. Many shelters will refuse to take on a blind survivor. This needs 
>to be remedied immediately.
>This also brings me to a point that I want to make. We, as Federationists, 
>cannot turn our backs on this horrifying trend. I thank God for the 
>Federationists I know who have led and encouraged me, as well as those who 
>tried for months to find a safe place for me to stay. We must, if it becomes 
>necessary, go insofar as to open our homes to victims so that they might escape 
>the horrible situation they are in. 
>One last point: It is possible to train ourselves how to stop this violence, if 
>possible. I say if possible because I know from experience that it is not 
>always possible to stop someone, especially if you don't detect their approach. 
>It also may seem intimidating to a victim to try and resist, especially if the 
>abuser is more physically strong than the victim or has a significant mental 
>influence over the victim. 
>That's all I have for now.
>Aleeha 
>Sent from my iPad
>
>>On Mar 9, 2014, at 3:09 PM, "Lillie Pennington" <lilliepennington at fuse.net> 
>>wrote:
>>
>>Hi Everyone,
>>I apologize if I am repeating a point that has already been said. Along with
>>finding the information and resources, I think that we need to make sure
>>that materials or information provided by these centers are in an accessible
>>format. I also think that we need to make sure that resource staff and
>>volunteers are educated with how to deal with the blind. I would hope that
>>they are trained on this, but I suspect that they are probably not, or may
>>be misinformed. I would hate for a blind or otherwise disabled person to
>>seek help and be denied the best possible assistance that someone that was
>>sited could receive. These people need to be educated that there are other
>>options for blind people besides the abuse situations. I apologize because I
>>am making assumptions here. 
>>This would probably be a "next step" to this goal, but I thought it was
>>worth mentioning so that the people finding out this information and anyone
>>else could keep it in mind. 
>>
>>-----Original Message-----
>>From: Ohio-talk [mailto:ohio-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Marianne
>>Denning
>>Sent: Sunday, March 09, 2014 10:24 AM
>>To: NFB of Ohio Announcement and Discussion List
>>Subject: Re: [Ohio-talk] Want to Participate in Survey about domestic
>>Violence?
>>
>>I agree with that totally.  I also think we need to do more to educate the
>>disabled and elderly on how to, as much as possible, prevent it from
>>happening.  And, yes, I believe this is possible.  It isn't easy.
>>
>>>On 3/8/14, Colleen Roth <n8tnv at att.net> wrote:
>>>Hi Marianne,
>>>We are talking about Domestic Violation.
>>>Unfortunately people with a disability and the elderly are 
>>>particularly vulnerable.
>>>Colleen Roth
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>----- Original Message -----
>>>From: Marianne Denning <marianne at denningweb.com>
>>>To: NFB of Ohio Announcement and Discussion List 
>>><ohio-talk at nfbnet.org>
>>>Date: Saturday, Mar 8, 2014 05:31:56 PM
>>>Subject: Re: [Ohio-talk] Want to Participate in Survey about domestic 
>>>Violence?
>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>Okay, then ask the presidents of all of the divisions to find someone 
>>>>to check it out.  It is just another way to get the message out there.
>>>>I know many of the chapters or divisions are all over the states and 
>>>>others are local chapters.  I think we are talking about domestic 
>>>>violence rather than violence that happens in a community.  Did I 
>>>>read this correctly?  I know both are issues of great concern.
>>>>
>>>>>On 3/8/14, COLLEEN ROTH <n8tnv at att.net> wrote:
>>>>>Hi Marianne,
>>>>>That is a good idea but there may be some communities which would 
>>>>>not be included this way.
>>>>>I would think that the Student Division might want to see what is 
>>>>>available for blind students on or near campus because these 
>>>>>students wouldn't want to miss class if they could be safe and 
>>>>>still attend class.
>>>>>Some small towns will probably say that people in need of 
>>>>>assistance would need to go to the nearest large city near them.
>>>>>Colleen Roth
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>----- Original Message -----
>>>>>From: Marianne Denning <marianne at denningweb.com>
>>>>>To: NFB of Ohio Announcement and Discussion List 
>>>>><ohio-talk at nfbnet.org>
>>>>>Date: Saturday, March 8, 2014 3:40 pm
>>>>>Subject: Re: [Ohio-talk] Want to Participate in Survey about 
>>>>>domestic Violence?
>>>>>
>>>>>ar
>>>>>ar
>>>>>ar Cheryl, I think this is important.  You might get a better 
>>>>>response  if ar you contacted the presidents of each community 
>>>>>chapter.  That is just ar a suggestion.
>>>>>ar
>>>>>ar On 3/7/14, Cheryl Fields <cherylelaine1957 at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>ar > Attention All Federationist!
>>>>>ar >
>>>>>ar >
>>>>>ar > Last November at our state convention, several questions were  
>>>>>raised ar > about domestic violence and the blind.
>>>>>ar > What is domestic violence/ partner abuse?
>>>>>ar >
>>>>>ar > Is there help for someone who wants to escape?
>>>>>ar >
>>>>>ar > Where is this help located?
>>>>>ar >
>>>>>ar > Answers to these questions are hard for a sighted person to 
>>>>>locate  and ar > once answers are obtained navigating the system may 
>>>>>be even harder.
>>>>>ar >  Take time to imagine how difficult this must be for a blind  
>>>>>person, ar > to locate the same answers!
>>>>>ar > In an effort to provide answers and support for blind adult 
>>>>>victims  of ar > domestic violence. Some exploration is necessary, 
>>>>>services can vary ar > from community to community. Let's work 
>>>>>together on this fact  finding ar > mission. Step 1 is completing 
>>>>>the survey. We will gather  information ar > from around Ohio. After 
>>>>>completion of the survey, we can evaluate  what ar > we gathered and 
>>>>>decide on the next steps.
>>>>>ar >
>>>>>ar > I am asking for volunteers from each chapter to participate in 
>>>>>ar > surveying your community's services for blind adult victims.
>>>>>ar > Communicate with your chapter president, if you are 
>>>>>participating ar > contact me using the e mail address below. If you 
>>>>>need additional ar > information please contact me. All surveys 
>>>>>should be completed by  May ar > 1, 2014, send to Cheryl Fields 
>>>>>cherylelaine1957 at gmail.com.
>>>>>ar >
>>>>>ar > Thank Y.
>>>>>ar >
>>>>>ar > Cheryl Fields
>>>>>ar >
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