[stylist] I would appreciate your help

Wed Feb 4 14:20:41 UTC 2015

I'm a mom in my mid-30's, and most my friends, while parents too, are still
in their mid to late 20's. They don't always understand why I would rather
chill at home instead of going out to the pub or some other social
environment. Thank god most of them have out-grown the disco, LOL!

Unlike many of our friends, my husband and I usually prefer to be
home-bodies. We like getting out in nice weather to be active with the kids,
but to actually go out go out, not always our bag, grin.

We do a play or movie or dinner from time-to-time, but in general, we like
being at home, around the house doing things with the kids or doing things
as a couple.

Even in my 20's, I wasn't the type to party, I enjoyed a good book back then
too, but now, I really don't like too many social interactions.

Just the other day, friends asked if we wanted to hang out Saturday, just at
the house, and we both sighed inwardly because on weekends, we like to try
to just be together as a family. Guess we are becoming recluses in our
dotage, LOL!

Plus, in the winter, I become a bear and just want to hibernate until it's
warm again. Love my summer and can't get enough being outside in summer, but
winter, no thanks, grin.

Bridgit

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Subject: Re: [stylist] I would appreciate your help

As an introvert with extrovert tendencies I say guilt is pointless when it
comes to social activities. If I don't want to go, don't think I'll enjoy it
I just don't. If I think a person will pressure me until I'll have to be
rude to them I  just say I've a flu and no one  wants a person there with a
fllu. LOL. But usually I'm just honest and say we've other things to do, or
that I flat  out don't want to. Our  friends asked us last week if we wanted
to go to Ashland, like an hour away, to this music thing and I just said
thank for thinking of us but we're  not into that sort of music and just
don't want to. No reason to waste time doing something  out of any social
obligation when I'd rather do something else. I tend to be the most social
when truly around people I really click with, few and far between sadly, but
if I feel the need to be social that's what I need. Or an interesting
environment, meaning something I"m interested in. Specific types of music or
food or if it's shops, period type stuff or old toys or rocks/gems, whatever
as long as I'm into it.
Sem
I'm friends with the monster that's under my bed.
I get along with the voices inside of my head. 

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